SINGLE-PARENT CHILDREN BEHAVIOR
Based on census information, the number of children being raised in a single-parent home is on the rise. It always causes negative implications for children. When children have both parents, they tend to have better educational and financial advantages. Many people don't even realize how much a child's behavior is impacted when it comes to being raised in a single-parent home. Find out more by reading below.
Impact on Academics
Many single-parent homes are run by mothers. Beyond not having a father, there is also the chance that household income will be lower for these single-parent households. When you combine all of this together, it tends to increase the chance that the children are going to end up performing badly in school. Because many fathers aren't providing financial support to the children, it makes mothers work harder to make ends meet.
Working harder takes mothers a lot of time. As a result, they have no time for their children. In turn, children don't have a parent readily available to assist them with completing their homework.
If the other parent sent money to the single parent raising the child, it would help free up time for that parent to spend it with children. When the children have the emotional support of the non-custodial parent, they often end up doing better in school when compared to children who don't have contact with the other parent.
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Impact on Emotions
When there is only one person in the house earning an income, it puts the family at risk of being below the poverty level. Families that live in poverty tend to be more stressed. This can carry over to the children and cause them to struggle with low self-esteem, frustration, anger and even violent tendencies. Some children feel as if they are the one to blame for the other parent leaving. They act out on their peers because of their anger at the other parent.
Beyond all of the financial struggles, many children end up feeling sad, lonely and abandoned. They struggle to form relationships with other children and connect with them emotionally. While the effects are going to vary from one child to the next, it doesn't get any easier when there is only one parent in the household supporting the family.
Impact on Social Life
Many children from single-parent households end up withdrawing socially. They tend to dive into a state of depression and loneliness. This often occurs because the one parent is always working and has no time for children. Because the children are often alone, they tend to feel that they aren't wanted or that the parent doesn't care. When the children enter the state of loneliness, they end up turning away from their peers and spend most of their time in their bedroom alone. This can cause a number of problems for children.
Everything you do in life involves communicating with someone at some point. This is why it is so important for children to feel like they can come to their parent and talk about how they are feeling and what they need help with. Otherwise, it is only going to end up causing them, even more, problems later on in life when they try to get a job or even find a mate.
Even though it isn't all that easy to be a single parent. Spend more time communicating with children and make sure that they have everything they need to succeed in life. In time, you will be able to work your way through the whole ordeal and grow to form a long-lasting bond.
Children have always been copying their parents’ behavior. It is very easy to notice. Three-year-old girl criticizes her doll for the same faults she was punished earlier. She copies not only her mother’s words, but even mimics and gestures. Parents’ behavior is taken for the model: “I want to do exactly what my mother does”.
This peculiarity of children’s personality is a basis of their upbringing. Imitation of parents’ behavior is the easiest and the most natural way for a child to learn. It is up to parents to help their kid become successful and make his/her life better. One of the ways to do it is to be the best role model. Let him copy the better sides of you. Don’t forget that he will remember not only what you do, but what the other adults around him do as well. So, filter your surrounding and make sure there are pleasant and polite adults around your child.
Generally speaking, parents wire up their children to take up their lifestyle with their words and actions. From the very first days they lay the foundation of kids’ personality with daily routine, project on them all the mistakes, achievements and victories. Very often a child repeats his parents’ life without even realizing it, even though he is not always proud of what kind of people they are.
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